If you care for your friends in luminous
Friday, November 12, 2010
This is pretty much a post about this fam. I would like to share because u guys are all my frens. Lets Just say that One thing this fam is lacking is Trust. I shall be very open and clear. This post is for every member in luminous. Whether trust me or not. Its totally up to you. Because I am posting this is to help my frens have trust in each other and my friends to have trust in me.Well first things first is. The Dao-ed problem. Yeah our fam somepeople( don't think its one person because i refering more thn 5 people) Well find it they get dao-ed most of the time or quite often. But yeah maybe people make mistakes and dao-ed by accident. Because i assure u guys that luminous every member never dao-ed on purpose de. Its like example i am playing guitar mode? I play for 5 hours straight. Most of the time fam chat with me. i may not reply because yeah maybe i did not see? We all are humans we tend to make mistakes. And when u(I mean to every member) Get dao-ed. Yes i know its a irritating feeling that's why must share it out like how i share it. But please share it in a nicer and less offending way. And find a solution to the problem. Well i "Heard" mostly like to blame the masters? yeah we master we 100% Cannot dao people. Think about it, We are also people we are also your friends. Master rank is like for admin stuff right? At the end of the day. We are your friends not your So called Masters. We can't solve everything de u know why? Because there is 3 of us and how many of u guys. Masters can only help if u willing to let us and trust us. Without trust nothing else matters. I tell u guys staright i just lost something worth 500SGD and its not bothering me cos this fam is bothering me even more. I am wondering how do we grow if we can't even trust each other? I Know some of you reading this might be a little confuse but let me just say that some people in the fam don trust each other. really. don trust each other.I won't say who. but i hope that person(more thn 1 okay don assume its you) will just let out everything with everyone and i mean everyone. and share the problems u have with this fam. Its like yes can tell the master the problem. but what u wan the master do when the other people u have problem with are not here right? Must think about it logically. If the person have problem with not here what's the point of telling others. If this issue can't be solve i really don see a point in upgrading the fam. Yes some of u may think by me saying this making the problem "Big" but rather thn keeping it small and not letting anyone know right? and suffering alone or secretly Hating Luminous. Might as well solve the problem no matter how big. And when i say No one will hate each other no one will IF willing to share everyproblems you guys have with the whole group no one will hate each other. And Not share in msn all this. Real life share everything better right? face to face. Rather thn keeping something u don feel comfortable with. And I recruit people not recruit Members leh. well for me at least my definition of recrutiting members Is called ( Making Friends) Although many may not understand what i am saying. But i just wan everyone to trust each other and solve the problem together kay? Not as 2 not as 1 not as 3. As A Whole. Because If this fam really does not make u happy. Why Bother Staying In it? Really If it does not make u happy. Find A fam that can make u happy. No one will hate because everyone knows Happiness is important. I just want all be happy. can flame me for posting this but just think about The happiness part in this fam. If really don feel happy in this fam. So be it. Because This fam is to help people be happy not help people be angry or sad. Anyway that's all And Don't assume my "Someone" Is always you. Because i refering to over 30 people really. Really alot of people alot of storys just that most of you don know only. This is to all that care for their friends in luminous.and lastly to those who thinks they have a problem with example 10 people? And wish to solve it cos u wan to cherish everyone as your friend. Tell me. and u and me and the 10 people will solve the problem together. And be happy with each other. Btw I think u guys know who i am already. And please don't msn and come shoot me. Cause i am just doing like an example. Telling the group the problem i have and hope to solve it. If this can be solve. Trust me this fam will be much better if everyone and i mean everyone lets out their problem